hasta-lala-uego:

chokkilissa-nahollos:

i understand that my friends don’t wanna talk every day. i understand that my s/o doesn’t wanna be lovey dovey and super indulgent every day. lots of people need rest from performative emotions. all people need rest in general! it’s okay!! it doesn’t mean they don’t love me!! it’s not a judgement or punishment!! they deserve to take their rest, and they deserve for me to treat their needs with respect!

not a lot of ppl grasp this.

Surviving the Tumblr Hellfire

kieren-fucking-walker:

A collection of posts with advice for getting you and your blog through whatever this mess is.

Check if your blog has been incorrectly flagged as NSFW (and if it has, get it unflagged before Dec 17th)

See all your blog posts that have been flagged (because tumblr didn’t feel the need to notify you?)

New posts not showing up on your blog and how to fix it (you have not been muted)

Exporting your blog (Tumblr)

Backing up your blog (to WordPress)

Alternative way to backup your blog

Masterpost of Tumblr alternatives

Complaining to Tumblr about this mess

Advice for those who’ve never dealt with a fandom purge before

All of these posts link back to original posts of other blogs, I mostly made this for myself but decided to make it shareable, please respect the following:

If you click through to ANY of these posts, even if you don’t use them, reblog them individually if you’re going to like/reblog this post. 

Share and add to this post if you can ❤

gaming:

The Game Awards Spotlight: Bryan Dechart

Do you stan Connor from Detroit: Become Human? Our final spotlight goes out to all of Connor Army fans on Tumblr! We caught up with Bryan Dechart who voices Connor from Detroit: Become Human and talked all about the Connor Army and how he connects with the fandom. 

Bryan, do you know about your Connor Army on Tumblr?

Oh, I know about the Connor Army! Do you know about the Connor Army?! I feel like everybody here might know about the Connor Army. They’re very enthusiastic about Detroit and super, super grateful for their support!

Do you ever look into the fandom and what’s the best thing you’ve seen so far?

Oh man, we get so much wonderful fan art. We’ve been doing a stream on our Twitch channel called Fan Art Friday were we try to share as much of it as possible because it’s tricky to keep track of every hashtag and every time I get tagged in somebody’s art but, a lot of really really creative work from around the world. It’s been really exciting to see all the different styles and interpretations of the same characters, what they look like and represented in different communities around the world.

What would you like to say to your fans on Tumblr?

Thank you! And thank you, thank you. Come join us on Twitch and hang out!


Want to hang out with Bryan? Make sure to check out Bryan’s Twitch channel where you can game and chill! 

This interview has been edited for clarity

**pictured Amelia Rose Blaire [left] and Bryan Dechart [right]